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The HEARTS of Being Polysecure

The HEARTS of Being Polysecure
Jessica Fern

Publication Date: May 6, 2022
Format: Poster; Poster bundled with softcover of Polysecure
ISBN: 978-1-952125-10-2 (poster); 978-1-952125-49-2 (poster and book)
Price: US$7.99 (poster); $27.95 (poster and book)

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Attachment theory has entered the mainstream, but most discussions focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if, like many people, you’re striving for secure, happy attachments with more than one partner? As featured in Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy, HEARTS is a practical framework to cultivating secure attachment in multiple relationships.

Polyamorous psychotherapist Jessica Fern breaks new ground by extending attachment theory into the realm of consensual nonmonogamy. The HEARTS framework sets out six specific strategies to help nonmonogamous people move toward secure attachments in their multiple relationships. This 10.25″ x 17.5″ poster “The HEARTS of Being Polysecure” offers a colourful illustration of the HEARTS framework. Hung on your wall, it will offer a daily reminder of key ways to nurture security with your loved ones.

Jessica Fern

Jessica Fern is a psychotherapist, public speaker and trauma and relationship expert. In her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples and people in multiple-partner relationships who no longer want to be limited by their reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment styles and past traumas, helping them to embody new possibilities in life and love.

Jessica’s first book, Polysecure, was published by Thorntree Press in October 2020, the accompanying workbook will be published in fall 2022, and she is currently working on a new title.